Hey there, fabulous humans (and those who think they’re fabulous but need this post to level up),
It’s your Wing Woman, the owner of Dream Date—yes, the lady behind the platform you signed up for because you’re ready to stop swiping on the apps that treat you like a clearance rack item.
Since I’m here to make sure you win at love, let’s talk about something that’s holding WAY too many of you back: Your profile picture!
Here’s the blunt truth: The love of your life doesn’t want to see a picture of you from a bad angle, in bad lighting, or rocking that busted hoodie you only wear when you’re sick. This isn’t your driver’s license, it’s your dating profile. You’re here to attract someone, not scare them away.
I don’t care if you’ve “got a great personality.” So does everyone’s grandma. But no one is interested in blurry, out-of-focus, “just woke up in the trenches” selfies to figure that out. If you want someone to stick around long enough to see how amazing you are, you’ve got to give them a reason to. It’s called attraction marketing! Use it to your advantage.
Now, I know some of you are thinking: “But I don’t want to come off fake!” No one said you need to Facetune your face into a wax museum nightmare. Just try—put some effort in! Here are the basics:
1. Good Lighting – Natural light is your friend. Stand near a window or step outside. Bathroom lighting. It’s a vibe, but not the one you want for this.
2. Flattering Angles – Your phone has a self-timer for a reason. Prop it up, take a step back, and experiment. If all else fails, call your bestie. Don’t act like they haven’t taken 347 pics of you before.
3. Look Presentable – I’m not saying full glam every day (though, if that’s your thing, go off). Just wear something that makes you feel confident and like your best self. Confidence is hot! That shirt you got for free at a 5K? Not.
4. Lose the Group Pics – If someone has to guess which one is you, they’re moving on out of confusion. Also, why do people post pics with their hotter friend? It’s self-sabotage, They should probably stop that.
5. Smile, You Gorgeous Thing – A picture where you look happy is worth a thousand words. People love warmth and approachability, not someone who looks like they’re posing for a mugshot.
Bottom line: This is your chance to make a killer first impression. Your soulmate (or at least your next prospect ) is scrolling through profiles looking for someone who catches their eye. Don’t make them skip past you because your pic looks like a bad day at the DMV.
So go on—update that profile, take a new pic, and show the world how awesome you are. Your soulmate is out there, but they’re not going to message you off of “meh.” Give them something they can’t resist.
Because you deserve the love you’re looking for—and they deserve to see you at your best.
Stephanie
Truth!